I’m being accused of parental alienation while it’s the other way around

2021.10.22 19:50 rdvw I’m being accused of parental alienation while it’s the other way around

Hi, my (pre-teen) kids refused to go to their mother during the summer holidays. They have been with me ever since. There are plenty of reasons. The children say she slaps them from time to time, she’s always on her phone and doesn’t give the kids attention, she never does stuff with the children, etc. There is more. My daughter told me recently her mother had touched her (my daughter’s) private parts on several occasions. I have informed the police.
Also, after the summer holidays the mother came to the school to pick up the children on “her” days. The kids always refused to go with her.
The mother always talked bad about me in the past. I never did that about her. The mother tried to alienate me from the children. Saying I was a bad father, I hit her, I hit the kids, I abused the kids. I never said anything like that about the mother.
Now I'm facing a problem: I always stood up against the people who were involved in my case if they got it wrong. If they were wrong about something, I told them. The mother is very manipulative. Most people don’t see it. I called them out. Of course they don't like that. Now one of them has made a report against me saying I'm alienating the children from their mother. It’s unbelievable… and judges tend to believe these people... So it doesn't look good.
I am dealing with 4 people, all female, appointed by the juvenile judge. The children have told 2 of them they don’t want to go see the mother anymore. But then they accuse me of instructing (manipulating) the children what to say. Which is absolutely not true: to this day I tell them they can go to their mother if they want to go.
If you have any suggestions on how I can handle this I’d love to hear them.
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2021.10.22 19:50 pogjoker Furnace switched on once but now does nothing?

Trying to diagnose a rental furnace. I know it was working last winter. Tenant turned it off at the switch and the box, same as he always says he does for summer. Said he couldn’t get it to switch on but when he pulled the front off, it started. He turned it back off to replace cover and now nothing.
I swapped the old thermostat for a new digital and still nothing. No blower, no gas, no clicks, nothing. It’s an old Rudy “80 plus” of indeterminate age. Was there when I bought the place. Igniter, not pilot.
I’m not very advanced at furnaces. I’ve changed a few blower motors and relit pilots and such. Before I call someone in, is there anything easy I’m missing? Tenant is gone for the weekend and it’s not getting that cold so nobody is going to freeze tonight or anything.
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2021.10.22 19:50 JustmeRigthNow What kind of cut should I get? I’m tired of long hair

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2021.10.22 19:50 CUWS4590 Relationship Violence Discussion for Course

So this is my first reddit post, and I hope I am following all of the rules of this subreddit. If not, I hope you guys can direct me towards a better subreddit. I am a student in a #MeToo class at a rural university, and we are in the middle of a social media project regarding the movement. I wanted to start a conversation here about relationship and interpersonal violence and discuss a few aspects about this. One of the least talked about forms of abuse is mental abuse in relationships because this is a non tangible variation of interpersonal violence, but this doesn’t mean that it is any less important. The question is how can we recognize this form of abuse? Here, I’ve looked at a source that discusses 64 signs of mental abuse (https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse#humiliation-negating-and-criticizing). These are all red flags that you or a person you know is in an emotionally abusive relationship. This list ranges from humiliation tactics to codependence (with examples of derogatory pet names or withholding affection). It’s difficult to recognize that you are in a mentally abusive relationship, and it’s often that the abused dismisses any notion of the fact that they are in this sort of relationship. I’ve always heard the story that the person needs to figure it out on their own, but as a bystander, what are the possibilities of helping them? Particularly if they are a friend or a loved one. There are a myriad of resources (https://raydensolicitors.co.uk/blog/how-to-get-out-of-an-emotionally-abusive-relationship/) that help the abused to leave the relationship. But I want to turn this to you all. How can we lessen the occurrence of emotionally abusive relationships? How can we help those dearest to us? What are tools we can use to educate ourselves on the matter so that we can continue to grow as a society?
In addition to this, I also wanted to mention this disturbing fact that I’ve found. With the pandemic, the number of interpersonal violence cases have also risen. It has been thought by experts that the decrease in the number of calls to help centers has not been due to fewer incidents but rather the abused individual’s inability to reach a safe space. Shelters and travel restrictions have made it much harder for the abused to leave, and the way to report these incidents are unclear in different precincts (some have online options, some only accept in person reports). Also, individual trial courts have different filing procedures for restraining orders thus making this whole process that much more difficult (https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJMp2024046).
For my first post, I hope I can spark some conversation in the comment section. This project is very important to our class as we hope to gain insight from many perspectives. Please let me know your thoughts on the questions I asked or just thoughts you have in general reading about this.
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2021.10.22 19:50 RedditGamer6969 Looking for a solid PvP server?

When I first started New World I was ecstatic to level up and get in on the PvP action with my friends. However, when I started flagging the first couple of days(same time everyone else started to be able to flag) there was a large PvP open world battle outside WW. Then, I realized everyone went into full leveling mode and PvP was in hibernation as everyone was trying to reach level 60. The past week or so as many are reaching level 60 I have noticed a large increase in flagged players in the open world. So, decently even amount of territories with lots of PvP groups running around. I expect this to grow exponentially as more and more reach level 60 each day. Most nights have large scale 80v80 battles that can go on for hours, if you’re watching the chat these are not hard to find. Our server is 2-3-5 split in territories. If you’re looking for a good server with a thriving community and solid PvP player base. Server Locuta is where you want to join. Sounds like a lot of servers are missing the PvP player base or a good split of the territories needed to fully enjoy the game. I can assure you Locuta has both.
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2021.10.22 19:50 Ladylefave Which is your favourite nail? ✨

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2021.10.22 19:50 Ropesy252 141CR presents Operation Checkmate

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2021.10.22 19:50 awthought Feedback on my graphic tees? No sales yet. IG @rest.absurd

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2021.10.22 19:50 randomgirl1991 Profile review: 30F

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2021.10.22 19:50 PauWasTaken John scared, that’s everything that it’s in my mind

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2021.10.22 19:50 Dapper-Benefit8062 Tidligere politiker la an på meg da jeg var 16 år

Vet ikke om det er tillatt med navn? Men dette skjedde i trøndelag da denne mannen var på besøk og hadde tale med ungdommene. Jeg og flere av mine venner snakket med han, og neste kveld ser jeg at han har lagt meg til på facebook. Han skriver til meg og informerer om at han ligger naken i senga, og at det hadde vært deilig om jeg hadde vært i armkroken hans.
Er dette normalt blant politikere?
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2021.10.22 19:50 aerith_ff7 John Mendler, who owned Mallek's, has passed away.

I read about it in a newsletter. One of my favorite mechanics around.
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2021.10.22 19:50 c0rryptid flag of gay meatball people (my friend dyl made it)

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2021.10.22 19:50 Josephmama13 Steam deck as main computer?

Was just wondering if i getting a steam deck as my main pc is a good choice? Instead of a laptop or desktop. I like all it offers with gaming but noticed you can plug it in as a pc as well..
What are peoples thoughts?
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2021.10.22 19:50 forzath A continuity doubt

So, I've playing for a couple hours, I wanted to know are mission outcomes permanent? Say I did party Ghost where we sabotage Egor's experiment forcing him to go to the party. So will be be in party in all the new loops? Or do I have go and sabotage his invisible device daily?
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2021.10.22 19:50 OfficialTGW BATTLEFIELD V - PART 2 - LET THE WAR BEGIN

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2021.10.22 19:50 MBPuppy Can someone daw the bottom of her

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2021.10.22 19:50 mrmatrixmania Just watched the first Victoria episode (for the hundredth time)

I’m going through a divorce currently so I’ve been a bit down the last few months. Since moving back home ive started watching HIMYM again. Well last night I got to the first Victoria episode and it actually left me feeling looking up and to the future for the first time in a long time. Seeing Ted have that much hope and determination sparked something inside of me. From the first time I watched the series I always felt like I related to Ted the most. His unending determination and hope that he will find his love one day. You never know what little thing might spark hope back into you. I was happy last night.
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2021.10.22 19:50 architect334 About to fight with my boyfriend

Hello everyone! I am getting ready for a showdown with my soon to be ex-boyfriend. A lot of things led up to this moment but the last straw was when he downloaded romeo the other day and was interested in meeting up with my friend (which btw didn’t even send him a face photo so my bf was pretty much desperate to meet up with anyone) for a date. And today it was my birthday and he forgot to send me a message or anything.
I am getting ready to have a talk with him in a couple of days when I gather my strength. Do you have any tips for me? He practically lied to me the whole time and probably cheated on me multiple times.
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2021.10.22 19:50 DeepOpportunity3 Mahouka IF is Recommended if you want to know more about Tatsuya. A short story from Tatsuya perspective.

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2021.10.22 19:50 dato116 Trying to get first bike. New 2022 klr worth it over old ones?

Seeing some used ones (2005-2017) for around 3k on craigslist. Is new KLR bigger in size? Will mostly use it for city riding and light trails, nothing crazy.
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2021.10.22 19:50 FerbrandoDeanMcQueen Malibu☀️A riders paradise, with roads like one way twisties down a canyon to the ocean 🤯 🤌🏽. Thanks to Reddit users for teaching me of this gem.

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2021.10.22 19:50 Desperate_Culture_25 Second pregnancy advice?

Hello! We just had our gorgeous baby three months ago but we're starting to think about the second. Given my AMH, my OB has said that if we really want a second baby we should try naturally from Dec-March and then go to the IVF clinic again in March if nothing's happened. I've recovered really well from the c-section and so it feels like I'm ready to go. Does anyone have any advice moving forward? We have one embryo on ice. x
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2021.10.22 19:50 reddit_feed_bot ScottAdamsSays: @SidhuMel @tyler I'm about 8 to 1 ETH to BTC. Accidentally.

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